Need #2. Social Status: "Am I Cool Yet?"
Oh, the drama of the lunchroom hierarchy! Your middle schooler might suddenly care more about Instagram likes than family game night, all because social status is screaming loud in their world.
Early teens are all about fitting in with peers, as their social brains light up like a fireworks show. This need explains the mood swings, friend obsessions, and that inexplicable need to wear the same hoodie every day (because, apparently, it's "the look").
Why the fuss? Social status helps them navigate relationships and build identity, setting the stage for healthier connections later. To support this, encourage low-pressure social activities, like joining a club, and gently remind them that true coolness comes from being kind (not from that questionable TikTok dance).
PG tip: Share a funny story from your own awkward middle school days—nothing breaks the ice like admitting you once tripped in the cafeteria. Let's turn this into a bonding opportunity, not a battle.
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